The Donkey's Dilemma: When Too Many Choices Leads to No Progress

You've probably heard the old story of "Buridan's Ass." It's about a donkey that is equally hungry and thirsty. Placed right in the middle between a stack of hay and a pail of water, the paradox says since they are equidistant, the donkey can't rationally decide which way to go first. So sadly, it ends up dying of both hunger and thirst.

While an extreme example, this story contains an important lesson about decision-making and prioritizing. How often in our own lives do we metaphorically become that indecisive donkey? We pursue too many exciting goals and opportunities simultaneously, making little meaningful headway on any of them.

I frequently fall into this trap myself. One day I'm hyped about starting a new creative writing project. The next, I'm devouring books about learning a new skill like art or fitness. Then I get interested in exploring different hobbies. Before long, I have a dozen enticing "hay and water" options demanding my attention.

But like Buridan's donkey, I end up accomplishing very little of value. My focus fragments into thin streams instead of flowing purposefully. The wealth of choices paradoxically becomes paralyzing rather than freeing.

The logical part of me knows that to achieve anything major requires intense, single-minded focus over a long period. Whether it's a creative endeavor, career ambition, or personal growth - real progress demands a complete commitment to one path before moving on.

Yet over and over, I get distracted by new shiny opportunities before fully realizing my current pursuit. The irony is - in my eagerness to do and experience everything, I paradoxically starve my ambitions by constantly switching between options. Like the donkey, I stay stuck in place.

So I'm renewing my determination to work on just one meaningful goal at a time, no matter how tempting other options seem. I'll pick that single highest priority "hay or water," pour all my energy into fully obtaining it, before turning my attention elsewhere.

Because the truest way to eventually do "everything" that matters most is not to split our efforts across an ocean of choices. It's achieved by diving deeply and completely into whichever path we choose - emerging enriched on the other side before embarking on the next journey.

The paradox reminds us that the road to having it all may require paradoxically pursuing one thing at a time with total intensity and follow-through. What singular vital passion or ambition will I feed first? I'm making that focused choice now.

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